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I’ve talked a big Stitch Fix game in the past, but I have to be honest…
I had the WORST experience this week. And that makes me so sad!
I have recommended Stitch Fix to many people. And several have actually remembered to put my name in as having referred them, which translated to a credit for me.
That’s exactly what happened this time. I referred a girlfriend from work (who is now addicted, btw) and a couple of months after receiving the credit, I finally schedule another Fix.
I don’t do a regular Fix at this point for the sole purpose of money management. I have a hard time sending pieces back and have only done it a couple of times, and that was back in the very beginning.
**Side Note: If you are new to Stitch Fix, please don’t let this sway you. I’ve never had this experience in my probably 10+ times of using the service, and I don’t anticipate that it will happen again.
**Also, SIDE side note: Your first fix or two may not be a home run, but the stylist is getting acquainted with you, your preferences, and how things seem to fit you, so be patient… As with any relationship, it’ll take a couple of tries before you are at 100%, but even in those first fixes, I guarantee you’ll love at least one item that they send you!
Anywho, where was I? Oh right – this past week…
My Fix actually arrived a couple of days early, as it normally does (always a happy accident!), and I was quick to crack that baby open!
I always begin by opening my little envelope and only reading the stylist note. I don’t peek at their style recommendations and definitely don’t peek at the price sheet until after I’ve tried everything one. This is just my personal m.o., so… do with it what you will.
So I read my note, and already was a little bummed – It starts out with a “your stylist was unavailable, so I got the chance to style your Fix instead!” I’m cool with my current stylist. We’ve gotten into a rhythm over the years, but people need vacations and I’m not opposed to a new pal here and there. However, it went on… I had mentioned in my note to my stylist back when I scheduled this Fix that I was going to be in a beach wedding in September and wanted some casual beachy stuff for the trip. But her note said that she’d picked out this maxi dress for me to “pair with a turquoise statement necklace and it’d be perfect to wear to a beach wedding.”
Wait… umm… what?! But I said I’m in the wedding. I don’t need a dress for the wedding. 😐
Ah well. Perhaps it was a simple misunderstanding as those stylist note character limits can only take you so far… movingrightlong
I had also requested perhaps a kimono because I love the look and had just gotten some new leather booties. Her note mentioned the one she sent, along with having send some boyfriend jeans to have as a nice combo. In theory, this could be super cute, right? I’m not a big fan of the typical boyfriend jean style for my body type, but I was willing to give it a shot.
Unfortunately, I didn’t like a single thing in my box. NotAOne.
And this was SO incredibly disappointing because I’ve never had that happen before! I even had hard time trying to figure out which piece I would keep so as not to lose the $20 styling fee (which, for you noobs, is deducted from your purchase so you don’t actually pay it unless you don’t keep any of the items).
Well, thank goodness I realized that I was using my referral credit, because I didn’t want to lose the $20 and have to pay the difference for an item that I didn’t love.
So I didn’t.
I ate the lost referral credit (which I’m not thrilled about, but will take it over losing actual money, any day) and sent everything back.
I was so bummed that I didn’t even remember take a single picture. I could share my styling card, but frankly… that does not do it justice, and I don’t want to out the stylist, because for all I know she could just be new. Plus, the items seem fine on paper, but are not at all good picks for me. Not in the slightest. I’m sure that others who may have gotten the same items may have loved them and that thrills me! But… I will admit I’m a bit jealous of all of the chicks who are digging their fixes, at the moment. *le sigh
Let me just break it down for you:
Item 1 – My kimono was a sweater material, but the pattern seemed like a tapestry. And not something cute that could seem kind’ve vintage-esque, either. It just straight-up looked like I was wearing a thin run. AND it had fringe. I have nothing against fringe on other people, however I. Do. Not. Like. Fringe. NO FRINGE!
Item 2 – A false open-back sleeveless top (false because it had a built-in white “tank” underneath). Again – in theory, could’ve been cute. But it was quite frumpy on me and wasn’t even slightly flattering. Plus… let’s be honest – I am almost 30. When a shirt is near crop-length on me, there’s a problem.
Item 3 – A chevron-striped, blue and turquoise maxi dress. I am a fan of maxi dresses in general, however this one wasn’t ideal. It was the perfect length, and fit me just fine… however, it was a frump-top style (my very non-official term for when there’s a gathered waist and the top portion is styled to intentionally hang over said gather), and the chevron pattern was not straight. And it wasn’t “not straight” as in intentionally asymmetrical, it just looked like someone didn’t line the fabric up correctly when it was being made. Super obvious and really not-awesome.
Item 4 – A Splatter-paint patterned sheer tank. This was the piece that I almost bit the bullet on before I realized that I Was using my referral credit instead of posting a styling fee. It wasn’t awful. It was the only item in the Stitch Fix that was completely awful, but the splatter-pattern consisted of only primary colors. So rather than feeling slightly artsy and just pairing it with a sweater, I felt like I was wearing my art smock and trying to make it a “thing.” But it isn’t a thing. And I’m not wearing paint splatter to work.
Item 5 – This is the worst of them all. I’m not even sure how to approach this, so… I’ll just come right out and say it. They sent me mom jeans. Mom jeans, people! These “distressed boyfriend jeans” literally came halfway up my back (I wish I was just exaggerating) and immediately removed all traces of my rear-end as well as ensuring that I looked like I had purchased them from Kmart. Actually, that’s not entirely fair. I’m sure that some folks can rock some Kmart jeans, and I fully support that. I really think it just looked like I was actually trying to wear my husband’s pants, except that they were too short. Which is even funnier, because Studly is about 6’4″ with a 33″ waist. So… although these weren’t remotely close to that size, I’m sure you get my point. Oh… and they were “distressed,” too. Which means there were holes. And in this particular pair, there were lots of holes. I’m cool with a few holes and a run or two dedicated placed and not overpowering, but… this was not that.
Well… that’s that. I was super bummed, but not nearly as unhappy as I would’ve been if I’d had to spend actual cash-monies on this FIx. And also not nearly bummed enough to not give it another shot.
So I’ve scheduled my next Fix for the end of the month.
I fully believe that one key to a good Stitch Fix experience is in providing honest and useful feedback, so I did that. I wasn’t harsh or mean, but I was honest and provided feedback that would help to ensure that I didn’t get anything like these items again. For example, “I do not like fringe. At all” will hopefully keep such items, regardless of how popular they may be this fall, from being a part of my pieces. And “No more pants, please” will… well… hopefully keep them from sending me pants for now.
When I scheduled my next Fix, I mentioned in the note that I’d just had a really bad experience with my last Fix, so to please check it out before picking these next items.
And I try to be light-hearted with my responses, too. After all… this isn’t really that big of a deal. It’s just clothes. And I did fortunately have this happen for a Fix in which I wasn’t paying any money, so… no harm, no foul. I’m not looking to hurt anyone’s feelings or get anyone into trouble. I just don’t want to waste all of the monies, ya know?
So that’s that. My first, and hopefully last, bed experience with Stitch Fix.
If you haven’t tried it, please go read the hundreds, if not thousands, of positive reviews out there and DO NOT take this as me telling you not to do it. In fact, I’m saying the opposite. GO SIGN UP FOR STITCH FIX!! I still absolutely recommend the service, and I whole-heartedly believe that this being my first bad experience after years and many Fixes that have been nothing but spot on… that’s still a total win in my book.
I’d love to hear your experiences. Any other bummed Stitch Fixers this month? Also, has anyone tried Golden Tote, yet? What’s the deal there?
And if you’re having a bad day or week, please… just imagine distressed mom jeans and thank the Good Sweet Lord that they aren’t coming back into style like may of the other ridiculous things that we did in the 90s. Smh. Mom Jeans. What were we thinking back then?!
Much love and Happy Fixes!
With all of the rain we’ve had lately, I’ve been dreaming of the warm, sunny days that are more typical her in Texas. And for some reason, when I think about beautiful sunny weather in a state as awesome as Texas, I’m typically also thinking about cute spring outfits to go along with it.
Some do spring cleaning, but I tend to do a good bit of spring shopping.
As I mentioned previous, I’m not typically much of a shopper. But there are two times when I do tend to do the bulk of my shopping… the spring, and the fall. Outside of these two times, it’s pretty unusual for me to shop and instead will occasionally buy a random shirt or pair of shoes (and by randomly, I mean maybe once every other month… if that).
I have done Stitch Fix a few times, which I very much enjoyed, but even that isn’t something that I like to do all that often. Because who has the money to do that all the time?!
I would be lying if I didn’t admit to the fact that I daydream on the regular, though. I mean… who doesn’t?! Everyone else always seems to put together, especially in comparison to myself. But I do try to mix it up and tear clear from wearing anything too bland and dreary. I don’t always succeed, but I try. haha
Anywho – here are some outfits that I’ve been LURVE-ing on Pinterest, lately. Fingers crossed that I can figure out to way to make them suddenly appear in my closet!
1. Love the simplicity of this one. I Honestly don’t think I’d accessorize the same way, but that’s just me. Who doesn’t love a perfect pair of white skinnies, and this loose-fitting top and these flats?! Totally cute.
2. Seriously… how cute is this? Another very simple outfit, but I adore the pop of coral with these skinnies… and a good pair of colorful skinnies can really round out a wardrobe. Or maybe I’m just convincing myself that I’d totally find a way to wear them all the time because I love them so much. And these sandals? What can’t you wear them with?! The rosettes on this white top just perfectly finish it off.
3. This outfit is something that I could put together rather simply. I already have a pair of bottoms almost identical to these, and I have a good red sweater, too. The white came is a given, and my brown flats are only slightly darker than this. I really just need to find this top because its super cute and I’d finish it off with a simple short necklace with a delicate silver chain.
4. Everyone needs a good pair of shorts and I am SO not a fan of both shorts, so these are pretty much ideal. The watch is a little flashy for me, but otherwise… super cute. I’d probably stick with some simple studs if I wore this necklace, but would definitely go for the earrings if I opted to go without the necklace. DOn’t want too much going on, that’s for sure. And the sandals are adorable and I waaaant them!
5. Hands down my FAVORITE of this bunch… this next one is so stinking cute. I love the kelly green sweater, and it is SO stinking CUTE when paired with this floral top. Almost anything can work with some basic jean skinnies, but throw in these pink suede pumps and I am in loooooove!! This is the one I’m really trying to make appear in my closet… but no matter how many “I Dream of Jeannie” head bops I do, it’s just not happening. *le sigh And this necklace is just icing on the cake, as well as the oversized cloth bag. So simple, yet so. stinking. perfect.
**Except for this last one, all pics were plucked straight from Pinterest and lead to random Polyvore boards that wouldn’t let me link in properly. Sorry Polyvore Queens! I just can’t seem to figure the sourcing out for some reason (it’s pulling in strange, random images instead of the ones I’m actually looking at. Haalp?!)
Let’s hear it – what are y’all eyeing up these days? Any thoughts on the outfits above? Seen any of these pieces during your e-window shopping lately? ‘Cause you’d absolutely be my hero!
I have a problem.
I don’t know what it is, but for some reason… painted nails just make me feel so put together.
Among other random, relatively petty, and unimportant things, one rule that I live by is this – and it is NOT negotiable:
Toes should NEVER NOT be painted.
Case in point…
Here we go… let’s try that again:
Theeeeere we go. Much better. (sorry… can’t turn the stinking pic for some reason)
And fingernails… they can be naked. It’s no big deal, really. But having them painted?
It just makes me feel so… grown up, I guess?
Let’s not get too crazy… to be clear, I am so NOT one of those people who coordinates their nail colors with their outfits or accessories or anything like that. I just pick a color probably once a week and go to town.
I’ve been on a pretty good streak of painting, too, ever since my bloggy friend Lindsay over at Learning To Be A Wife posted about her love of painted nails and the simple joy it brings her and reminded me of me long-lost love of “grown up” nails. So for the past… 6 weeks now, I believe, I have stuck with it. And it really does make such a difference.
On the days where I feel pretty shambled and not even remotely put together, seeing my painted nails typing on the keyboard brings back a little of that cheeriness, and is usually just what I need to get me through the day.
So what about you guys – what little things get you guys all cheery? Any quirky little habits that we should know about? Come on… we’ve all got ’em. Be honest! 🙂
You see – I am not much of a shopper. Now, window shopping… I am the queen of window shopping. But actually purchasing items is not something that I do very often.
Call me a cheap-o, because that is sometime the reason, but mostly… call me lazy. Shopping can just be so much work.
I know I know… #firstworldproblems
And pointers has helped a lot, that’s for DANG sure. But I often end up getting burned because things never fit me the way that they do on the cute Pinterest girls. *le sigh
What’s a girl to do? This is where window shopping comes in. But then occasionally (read: not even remotely frequently), I actually pull the trigger. And when I do, it tends to be for quite a bit of stuff at one time. Thankfully, that’s allowable because I save up my spending money while I’m window shopping the rest of the year. So when spending time does come around – I am ready!! I also tend to use Stitch Fix (which I am so stoked to tell you about!), so that also tends to keep me happy.
I haven’t quite figured out if spending time is coming or not because I have been eyeing quite a few adorable things, lately, that I can’t seem to shake off. Wanna see?
Of course you do! 😀
Here they are, in no particular order:
1. THESE shoes. Oh my WORD they are adorable. I can already picture so many outfits to wear them with – with skinnies… with bootcuts… and ALLL the sweaters! Is it just me? They are so stinking adorable and I love me some TOMs.
2. This shirt… I’m pretty sure I could live in this shirt. It’s completely adorable. How is it that Anthropologie seems to know exactly what I need? Aaaaaaand then price it so I really shouldn’t buy it. *le sigh
3. These. Boots. I need them… or something just like them, anyway. They are perfect and though I don’t normally purchase shoes from American Eagle, this may be worth changing that pattern.
4. Oh my word… this top. Again, Anthropologie… what in the WORLD?! Have you mastered mind reading or something? Yeah… ok… I just decided to buy this. It’s happening.
5. Gingham. ANYthing gingham. It must have gingham in my wardrobe.
6. Almost anything from this site. The Blue Door Boutique is filled adorable pieces that I am constantly eyeing up. Case in point… this one. And I know from experience that they value their customers – when I placed my first order a year or so ago, they included a pair of earring for FREE. Just for being a new customer. How cute and just freaking awesome is that?!
So there ya have it. I’m currently swooning on a BUNCH of stuff. And even though the buying doesn’t tend to happen very often, the swooning never ends.
I’d love to know wha you think about these items. But more importantly – what are you guys eyeing up these days?